Wow, a sex column? Like
Carrie Bradshaw of Sex and The City fame?
Well, not exactly. I like to think
that I am aspiring more to be like Candace Bushnell, the creator of Carrie Bradshaw or Martha Stewart. But here's what Carrie
B. and I have in common - we both write about love, sex and relationships and have a tendency to overshare. We're both haute
mess authors and personality journalists who live in NYC. That's where my similarities with Carrie Bradshaw end.
I am a Caribbean American chica living in Harlem,
still delightfully in the middle of learning life and sometimes that's not fabulous.
I am not afraid to be unhip or unglam. I will continue to make mistakes and fall on my face and in the meanwhile, I am having
so much fun playing with YOU. And I am audacious enough to share whatever tiny bits of knowledge I learn as I learn it.
As
for how dare a VH1 Tough Love reality chick share thoughts and advice on Love, Sex, and Dating: Trust me,
every reality TV guru matchmaker that I've met has a hot disgusting gross mess of a personal life. There are no gurus. The
hero is you. We are the ones we've been waiting for.
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