Did You Have Sex Too Soon?
Is your relationships doomed because you had sex or intimacy too early?

Relationship Advice Videos from the Luvem or Leave Em Love Team

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My love, did you just have sexy time too early in the relationship and now you are worried that your possible love is doomed to fail?

Or better yet, did you have sex before it even had a chance to become a relationhip and now you're like, aw man! I really liked that person, and now it's all ruined becaue they think that I'm a whore?

The fix is to try to have some kind of communication with the person. Reach out and talk to them. I know it's awkward but put it on the table. "It was too early and now I feel silly. I really like you."

The relationship doesn't have to be doomed. Many people got intimate right away and end up married for 30 years. I don't know if this will happen with your relationship but who knows. 

As long as two consenting adults agree there is truly no such thing as sexual relations too early. However, if like me you equate sex with intimacy and monogomy, you may be in for a let down if you give up your goodies and have sex before you or the other person is anywhere near knowing whether a real relationship is a possibility. But don't beat yourself up. You're human and it happens.

If the person doesn't want you? Chalk it up to experience.  Hopefully you at least had fun and now you know better what works for you next time in matters of love, sex and dating.

Watch the videos to see what the rest of my relationship advice crew at the Luvem OR Leave Em Advice Team thinks about sexual intimacy too soon...

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